security

okay so does anyone know the difference between a gold digger and someone who just wants security? lately im starting to think that ppl are gettin the two mixed up.  a gold digger stays in a man's pockets and always wants this and wants that where as someone who just wants sects security is someone who needs aman tht has things going on for himself to where she knows that the guy isnt going to always have to ask her to pay for this and pay for that someone who can go 50\50 w. her on things someone who can once in a while take her out to eat. not someone who can take her on a shopping spree to the mall every damn day. get it together ladies get some independence in your system.